If your husband or boyfriend is attracted to ample-breasted women, new research shows that they cannot help but look when one crosses in their field of vision. More than that, they cannot help but look for several seconds. Similarly, you may find that your eyes are drawn by a man with tight abs, or one with a firm, rounded ass. And you may wonder whether something is wrong with you or whether something is wrong with your relationship. You may consider breast augmentation surgery, and you husband or boyfriend might consider liposuction, a tummy tuck, or even a body lift. Or you may consider marital counseling.
But the truth is, nothing is necessarily wrong with you or your husband/boyfriend or your relationship. Although men are often blamed for their wandering eyes, new research suggests not only that men can’t help themselves, but that women are just as likely to find themselves drawn to an attractive person of the opposite sex. In a study conducted by Florida State University professor Dr. Jon Maner and others, and published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, psychologists used a proven technique known as “visual cuing” to assess biases in attention adhesion.They found that people’s eyes are automatically captured by attractive members of the opposite sex.
So, if you are considering breast surgery, body sculpting, or facial cosmetic procedures, make sure that you are doing it for you and not to try and stop your significant other’s wandering eyes, because you can’t. Perhaps the best thing to do is to engage your partner in conversation, finding out what attracts him or her, and trying to make this something that strengthens, rather than undermines, your relationship.
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